diff --git a/composeApp/src/androidMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/shared/RoomHelper.kt b/composeApp/src/androidMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/shared/RoomHelper.kt
index 5efe323..b87f789 100644
--- a/composeApp/src/androidMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/shared/RoomHelper.kt
+++ b/composeApp/src/androidMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/shared/RoomHelper.kt
@@ -9,25 +9,32 @@ import su.reya.coop.Room
 import su.reya.coop.short
 
 fun Room.displayNameFlow(viewModel: NostrViewModel): Flow<String> {
-    if (!subject.isNullOrBlank()) return flowOf<String>(subject!!)
+    // Return early if there's a custom subject/room name
+    subject?.takeIf { it.isNotBlank() }?.let { return flowOf(it) }
 
-    val memberFlows = members.map { viewModel.getMetadata(it) }
+    val displayMembers = if (isGroup()) members.take(2) else members.take(1)
+    if (displayMembers.isEmpty()) return flowOf("Unknown")
+
+    return combine(displayMembers.map { viewModel.getMetadata(it) }) { metadataArray ->
+        val names = metadataArray.mapIndexed { i, metadata ->
+            val profile = metadata?.asRecord()
+            profile?.name?.takeIf { it.isNotBlank() }
+                ?: profile?.displayName?.takeIf { it.isNotBlank() }
+                ?: displayMembers[i].short()
+        }
 
-    return combine(memberFlows) { metadataArray ->
         if (isGroup()) {
-            val profiles = metadataArray.map { it?.asRecord() }
-            val names = profiles.take(2).mapNotNull { it?.name ?: it?.displayName }
-            var combined = names.joinToString(", ")
-            if (profiles.size > 2) combined += ", +${profiles.size - 2}"
-            combined.ifBlank { "Unknown group" }
+            val combined = names.joinToString(", ")
+            val extraCount = members.size - names.size
+            if (extraCount > 0) "$combined, +$extraCount" else combined
         } else {
-            val profile = metadataArray.firstOrNull()?.asRecord()
-            profile?.name ?: profile?.displayName ?: members.firstOrNull()?.short() ?: "Unknown"
+            val name = names.first()
+            if (displayMembers.first() == viewModel.currentUser()) "$name (you)" else name
         }
     }
 }
 
 fun Room.pictureFlow(viewModel: NostrViewModel): Flow<String?> {
-    val firstMember = members.firstOrNull() ?: return kotlinx.coroutines.flow.flowOf(null)
+    val firstMember = members.firstOrNull() ?: return flowOf(null)
     return viewModel.getMetadata(firstMember).map { it?.asRecord()?.picture }
-}
+}
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diff --git a/shared/src/commonMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/Nostr.kt b/shared/src/commonMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/Nostr.kt
index a89c0c9..1d654f0 100644
--- a/shared/src/commonMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/Nostr.kt
+++ b/shared/src/commonMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/Nostr.kt
@@ -699,7 +699,7 @@ class Nostr {
     }
 
     suspend fun sendMessage(
-        to: List<PublicKey>,
+        to: Set<PublicKey>,
         content: String,
         subject: String? = null,
         replies: List<EventId> = emptyList(),
@@ -728,7 +728,7 @@ class Nostr {
                 tags.add(Tag.publicKey(pubkey))
             }
 
-            for (receiver in listOf(currentUser) + to) {
+            for (receiver in setOf(currentUser) + to) {
                 // Construct the rumor event
                 // NEVER SIGN this event with the current user signer
                 val rumor = EventBuilder
diff --git a/shared/src/commonMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/NostrViewModel.kt b/shared/src/commonMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/NostrViewModel.kt
index f3dfebb..a5fbb77 100644
--- a/shared/src/commonMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/NostrViewModel.kt
+++ b/shared/src/commonMain/kotlin/su/reya/coop/NostrViewModel.kt
@@ -548,7 +548,7 @@ class NostrViewModel(
             try {
                 val room = getChatRoom(roomId)
                 nostr.sendMessage(
-                    to = room.members.toList(),
+                    to = room.members,
                     content = message,
                     subject = room.subject,
                     replies = replies,